Category Archives: Summer

Yard Personality

From the farm to the classic Southern porch, outdoor spaces have always been a source of comfort and connection. Whether it’s a grandparent’s porch or a friend’s carport, these outdoor spaces offer a perfect blend of all things nature and relaxation. All the while, these outdoor areas reveal a sense of personal warmth permeating from the home. Read on and learn more about creating your own unique Yard Personality.

I can remember going to visit my Grandparents house which we called “the farm”. As young kids we had a large open space to run and play outside. Often as you would drive up to the farm, you could find my Grandma and Grandpa Adams outside on the porch or they would be sitting under a shade tree in lawn chairs.

Old Beautiful trees dotted my Grandparents landscape at the farm as a young kid

The cousins group had loads of fun playing on the farm. We had a large open space to run and play outside. Thankfully, we were always within earshot and eyesight of the adults who were visiting outside. A small creek ran behind the house and we cousins would end up there in our wanderings and play.

Streaming the all natural way…

I recently visited a friend. We were sitting outside on her carport. She has created a sweet, little spot to retreat to… complete with an outdoor rug, comfortable, cushioned chairs, music playing, and yes, a ceiling fan just to name a few amenities. The natural breeze flowing through the porch made it a perfect spot to spend a warm afternoon in conversation with good friends.

These family memories coupled with my recent visit to my friends house, got me to thinking about how people use or don’t use their space/ yard and how “individual personality” can impact outdoor spaces and its uses.

Living on a Farm… yard personality of its own

Growing up and living in the South, I would like to note that probably one of the most common outdoor spaces that people use are porches… front/back porch, or maybe even a screened in porch.

Porches: a place where stories are told and memories are made …This long, large porch located in Valle Crucis has been a favorite of ours for many years

The PORCH… where HOME meets the outside world. A porch allows us to connect with the exterior world, all the while, enjoying the creature comforts of being HOME.

These outdoor “rooms” are often used as a gathering place or even as a place of retreat. On a Southern porch, you can definitely “sit a spell”… one can watch traffic go by, swing, rock the day away in your favorite chair, view the stars at night, or simply listen to the sounds of nature.

Within the confines of a porch outdoor space, one can let the worries of the day wash away. Complete with and no phones or technology. Add in a cold beverage in hand, and the perfect porch sitting weather is upon us, minus the pollen!!

New Rocking Chairs from WCH are a perfect way to spend a afternoon relaxing on a porch or deck

As we sometimes do, Richard and I will go for a drive on a sunny afternoon. I love to “window watch” from the vehicle window as we make our way down the country roads.

Those Sunday afternoon adventures make me realize that Summertime is a wonderful time to notice the little bits and pieces of Yard Personality from the exterior and my car window…You know it when you see it as we make the “drive by”. Kids in the yard playing games, or even noting an interest in gardening with flowers abounding from the yard. Then I spot Rocking Chairs on the front porch as we pass by. The visible story of the homeowners unraveling right in front of your eyes… neatly kept lawn and shrubs, and orderly gardens. Or maybe just the opposite, flowing gardens that seamlessly wander from one area to another, featuring an old chair, chipping paint holding a garden treasure, the grass waiting to be mowed. Both of these scenarios create a sense of order and peace for each homeowner because that’s exactly what they wanted. Marked distinct features of personality that dominate the Yard…just from a quick glance as we drive past.

This chippy chair holds a strawberry plant on my back porch.

Have you ever thought about your distinct yard personality??? I haven’t ever given this topic much consideration, until recently. Is this really a legitimate topic… Absolutely!!!

First let’s define the term “YARD”. According to our purposes of this topic… a YARD is the entire surrounding area around the house, including the grass, pavement, porches, other outdoor spaces, and includes dedicated gardens.

Walkways are an important part of Yard Personalization, visually what is seen as you approach the front door? Is it welcoming to visitors?

In essence, the YARD is ALL useable outdoor space. Looking at the term YARD, the opposite is true in the United Kingdom. The garden IS the whole. Yard would not be the proper terminology.

Gardens are the baseline of the individualized personality in the UK, it’s nice to include the whole perimeter of your usable area in Yard Personalization here in the US

Processing this new concept of Yard Personality, I think it’s crucial to understand that People will prioritize their needs and wants into how they want to use their yard based upon what it’s important to them. Of course, often budget is a factor… but the use of good ol’ elbow grease, sweat equity and repurposing materials can make a huge impact!

After a quick visit at my friend’s house, I concluded that she has beautifully created a place to relax and uses that space as a place to retreat after a long day at work.

According to a quick Google search, most people fall into a few key categories when it comes to YARD PERSONALITY. I was extremely curious to see where I would fall… or not be found.🧐 Would my style potentially overlap with more than one???

This sweet little stained glass frog would look great in any outdoor space.

My curiosity got the best of me and I kept diving into it. Here’s my modified list to keep it simple and easier for writing purposes.

Yard Personalities:

1. The Lawn Expert… these individuals create a carefully designed and manicured/maintained yard. Gardens are well kept or maybe not present because the emphasis is literally on the beautiful the yard itself.

The Gardens pictured here at Tryon Palace are a perfect example of the “Expert”

2. The Lover of Nature… The Yard and Gardens meandering about, flowing with a variety of colors and styles of flowers. Areas are designed in the yard to attract various species of wildlife(hummingbirds, birds, butterflies, etc) and you may find seating areas present to enjoy the fruits of their labor throughout the entire yard.

Planting to attract wide variety of bees, butterflies, etc
Bird houses and feeders in all shapes and sizes available at WCH

3. The Entertainer…This individual may have a Grilling area is set up to entertain and to cook up a great meal, a festive outdoor table set to welcome friends and family, maybe a fire pit to welcome guests, lawn games, swimming pool, you name it, the Entertainer will have it!

BBQ sauces, rubs, Traeger pellets, and grill accessories all available at WCH for the summer entertainer

4. The Kid and/or Pet Friendly Yard… Basketball, volleyball, soccer goals set up in yard, or swimming pool visible…riding toys scattering along the driveway or the yard, outdoor play areas created for the kids, or maybe even a tree house. Backyard fences keep the kids and pets within view and allow them to play safely.

Pool water testing and chemicals are available for purchase at WCH all summer long for family fun😎

This is just a small sample of brainstorming that I did to imagine these different types of Yard Personalities. I feel sure that this is only scratching the surface!

My mind then wandered back to my own to Spring “to do list” as I began refining and defining my Yard Personality. 🧐. What area(s) did I want to focus upon in my own YARD???? After some thought, I decided our back porch needed a bit of TLC.

A good back porch cleaning was necessary… we have some great items at WCH for outdoor clean up

So I’ll pose the same questions to you. Did you find a Yard Personality that you strongly identified with??? Is your yard in shape for the upcoming Spring and Summer season??? 🧐🧐🧐

These handmade wind chimes would make a great addition to any yard or garden

Currently, I’m slowly trying to make a few projects a reality and keeping within budget using objects that I already have… finding a new way to repurpose them, and adding in color/texture as I can. I’ve slowly been working on my back porch area over the last few weeks adding a few things to make it more comfortable for us to use on a regular basis in hopes that it will become a welcoming space for all of us as well as our guests.

Work in progress from my back porch, flowers still yet to be planted, repurposing my strawberry planter as a quick side table… hanging baskets and crates to warm up the siding using vinyl siding clips, very easy project!!!

Another thing worth mentioning, a portion of Yard Personality can be attributed to how you use found objects or even Art in your space.

These unique outdoor lanterns add a nice touch of Art and beauty to your existing landscape

Art is often a form of creative expression and imagination which can be found in a visual form. It could be the appearance of hand created objects, like bird houses, or feeders, or the appearance of a symphony of vibrant colors from the garden, or Yard Art.

These PVC bird houses found at WCH are exceptional!!! Long lasting and made in NC!!!

The use of Art can evolve with your imagination and creativity all the while, looking at needs and wants within a given outdoor space… ultimately bringing vibrancy to your Yard.

Let your imagination and creative energy shine this year! Wilkes County Hardware is here to support your new found passion and dedication to creating and developing your own unique Yard Personality, making home a true place of retreat and comfort.

Store Hours: Monday through Friday 8am-6pm , Saturday 9am-3pm

Summer Photography 2025

It is so hard to believe that the Summer of 2025 is coming to an end soon! This blog post is devoted to my photography favorites from this Summer as a reminder of some of my treasured moments. I hope that you will enjoy these photos that I have complied as the Best of Summer in photographic form… a “love story” of Summer.

Life is Always Better In The Garden…

First Blooms of Summer
Bursting Open
Searching for the Sun
Flower Tower Power!!! “Heavy Metal” Project
The garden table
Daisy Show
Butterfly 🦋 Moment
Double Butterflies 🦋

Summer Snapshots…

Blue Skies Ahead
Summer Hay Season
Storm Clouds Rolling
Darkened Storm Sky
Good Day Sunshine!
Sleepy Sunrise
Summertime Color Show
Summer Morning Hues
Clementine Skies
Fresh Blackberries… it’s Sonker time! Sonker Summers
Heavy Metal Object

July 4th Fireworks…

Summer Mountain Time… We spent some restful, quality time this summer at our friend’s cabin on Buck Mountain. I’m always amazed by the beauty that surrounds me there. I hope you enjoy these captures as much as we did.

Dimensions of A Sunset
Definitely 💕
Movement of Fog at Sunset
Fog Hugging the Ridge
Where the Clouds Meet the Blue Ridge
Sunset Rays
Sleepy Sunday Sunrise
Hues of the Blue Ridge
Glory of Sunset
Serenity of the Blue Ridge
Golden Hour in Progress
Meet Jethro… our newest family member
Just A Peachy Little Summer!

Sincerely,

Summer of 2025 😎

I’m Just Sayin’

The Southern vernacular is distinct. Case in point, Buggy. If you are from the South, you know this IS your grocery store shopping cart. Those common Southern phrases that are used in everyday language makes total sense to the user, but, for someone who has never heard that phrase… it can be a definite learning experience.

Rows of Grocery Shoppin’ Buggies

The Southern dialect is deeply rooted in our colonial past with the integral interaction of various immigrant cultures. Likewise, other regions of the US developed similarly with native dialects and spoken vernacular.

A Southerner can speak to a “non native” of the South in welcoming, hospitable terms… because that’s what we do. We welcome folks here to our corner of the world. But don’t underestimate that “sugary, sweet tea tone” nor the intelligence of the Southern speaker. A true Southern knows that “you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar” with the power of words and actions… AND because those same words can leave you “wondering if your cornbread ain’t done in the middle”. That’s right, I surely reckon a well versed Southern can easily complement you and “Bless your heart” all in the same sentence. 😬

Cornbread and buttermilk crumbled together… a snack or a meal????

As a hardware store owner, I have had the opportunity to converse with our customers each day. We have have had the pleasure to meet and talk with people from all over the globe. That’s right, from literally every corner of the world in our small, Southern town, inside our hardware store.

As conversation would have it, we have been able to learn a few “new”Southern phrases over the last ten years and even shared a few iconic phrases with non-native Southerners to take back home with them to their corner of the world.

A powerful conversation starter for us at the hardware store most days is the status of the weather. Whether it is freezing cold, pouring rain, or a beautiful sunny day, Southerners say it perfectly, as we often experience the ever changing weather conditions within the same day/week.

I’m Just Sayin’… Southern Phrases and the Weather

  1. It’s Hotter than blue blazes! meaning it’s hot outside and the blue part of flame is the hottest!
  2. That rain was a Gully washer! short heavy rain storm
  3. Boy, that was a Frog strangler… a big rain storm 
  4. It’s RAW outside today… meaning it’s cold and wet/moisture in the air 
  5. It’s hog killing weather. Very Cold Weather
  6. It’s cold as all get out! Brr
  7. Looks like it might be blowin up a storm out there.
Storm Brewin’

8. It’s not the heat, it’s the humidity

9. This is front porch sittin weather- mild weather, nice weather

10. Too hot to heat up the oven in this weather…

I’m Just Sayin… The Southern Greetings and the Long Goodbye

The Southern hello or greeting can take you back home… even though your Southern roots/home might be hundreds of miles away. It’s a way Southerners“visit with each other”. Likewise, the long Southern goodbye, makes total sense if you ever grew up in the South, and spent 30 minutes in a parking lot trying to leave somewhere saying “Let me let you go…” or watched your Mama try to get off the rotary phone with a friend, that’s in essence, the long Southern goodbye. Here’s a few of my favorites from this category:

Many Southern conversations take place inside our vintage walls at Wilkes County Hardware
  1. Hey, not hi! 
  2. Howdy, how y’all doin?
  3. I’ll holler at you later! I’ll call you later
  4. You good? Do you need anything? How are you?
  5. I guess I’d better Skedaddle– get out of here, it’s time to go 
  6. I haven’t seen you in a Month of Sundays– it’s been long time since we’ve seen each other
  7. How’s your Mama and them? How’s the family doing
  8. How you been doing? I’m upright and taking nourishment… meaning doing ok
  9. How are you doing?? Fair to middlin’ Doing ok
  10. How are you doing? I’m finer than Frogs Hair! Doing great! Couldn’t be better
  11. Boy, you are a sight for sore eyes! Good to see you!
  12. So, who is your mama and daddy??? Meaning, you meet another person for the first time and they ask… who are your people… making connections and learning about who you are
  13. I’ve known her since she was knee high to a grasshopper- know her since she was a young child
  14. As part of that long Southern goodbye, you might possibly hear this phrase, Lord willing and the creek doesn’t rise!
  15. Finally, finishing off the long Southern goodbye with this final phrase, We’d better hurry up, we’re burning daylight! 

I’m Just Sayin…The Southern Meal

Dinner and Supper are the terms Southerners use to describe the afternoon and evening meals. Supper doesn’t have to be a formal affair. It can be a casual family meal where everyone gathers to eat a simple meal. The Southern table is no exception to amazing food and fellowship. You probably have heard of a few of these phrases as you have entered the Southern kitchen to help prepare a meal or gathered at the Southern table.

Mess of green beans with new potatoes”, this gorgeous white enamel bowl is available for purchase at WCH… great for all kitchen or gardening tasks!
  1. Many hands make light work. Working together we can get it done quickly
  2. Sop– soak up … like a biscuit soaking up the last bit of gravy from your plate 
  3. You didn’t eat enough to keep a bird alive… meaning you didn’t eat enough
  4. I just need a smidge more of this… a little bit more
  5. I got a Hankering… craving for
  6. I’m so full, I’m about to bust my britches!!! Or I’m full as a tick!
  7. Grab me a pack of Nabs… Lance peanut butter crackers, can be eaten for a snack, substitute for dinner/lunch when you are on the run…
Pack of Nabs to go…always available for purchase at WCH

8. Don’t throw out that bacon grease, put it in my mason jar. It’ll keep.

Bacon grease jar… do you have one???

9. That’s Good potlikker… when cooking up a mess of collards or mustard greens, the remaining liquid gold is the potlikker.

10. Stringing up a “Mess” of green beans and “new potatoes”. A mess of green beans, not enough to run a full canner, but enough to feed the family… new potatoes, smallish potatoes just dug from garden and cooked with green beans usually. Now that’s summer cookin’.

11. Sit down and “fix you a plate”, meaning… make yourself at home, grab a plate, and load up on the good food!

These enamel plates are new, at WCH!!!

12. Sonker, nope, that is actually a dessert! Read more about it here using the link… Sonker Summers

Peach Sonker ready to go into oven

13. Mater sandwich– tomato sandwich 🍅

Summer “maters” means a good sandwich is on the way…

I’m Just Sayin…Strong Soul-Stirring Southern Phrases

These phrases are iconic and unforgettable… I’m just sayin’

  1. Well, I’ll Be… a form of exasperation
  2. Heavens to Besty! Similar to the phrase, oh my goodness!!
  3. Lord, just kiss them up to Heaven! only the Good Lord can help them now… I’m at my wits end 
  4. Bless! Or Bless Your Little Ol’ Heart…
  5. Aren’t you just precious! Listen for the user tone with this one
  6. I’m just worn slap out, Plumb tired – exhausted
  7. Look at you… all gussied up! All dressed up
  8. It’s all cattywampus … all out of sorts, not quite right 
  9. If it had been a snake, it would have bitten me! It was right there under my sight, just couldn’t see it!
  10. Take your own sweet time 
  11. Boy, that really “got my goose”…got the best of me, stumped me
  12. You’re just cute as button! Pumpkin or Sweet Pea… terms of endearment
  13. Smack Dab– in the middle of doing something
  14. “I’ll get to it dreckly”, meaning I’ll do it soon
  15. Mash that button for me, like in an elevator you don’t push a button, you mash it.
  16. I’m just gonna “Hunker” down over yonder … I’m staying home , not moving around, staying put
  17. Fixin to… getting ready to do something 

I’m Just Sayin…Phrases A Southern Kid Never Wanted to Hear

If your Southern Mama or Daddy used these phrases in conversation with YOU growing up, you might have been a bit of trouble or needed to rethink your current situation… just sayin

Southern Word… SAAVE
  1. You weren’t raised in a barn”shut that door please!
  2. Mind your manners/ Act like you have been to town before… meaning behave yourself in public places
  3. Don’t make me tan your hide! Warning… trouble ahead 😬 if you don’t straighten up!
  4. Y’all quit that wrasslin, or I’ll come over there and jerk a knot in you. 
  5. Hold your britches, I’m comin!
  6. Piddlin… messing around, not doing much or Lollygaggin, “movin slower than molasses”
  7. Who is making all that ruckus? Who is making all that noise
  8. Over there havin a hissy fit, all tore up over it, or don’t fly off the handle!
  9. Quit being ugly– stop acting out
  10. We need to have a come to Jesus meeting… we need to have a talk and come to terms about this situation
  11. Let me put some Saave on it… the A sound is long… Salve- a cream or ointment put onto skin to soothe or heal  
  12. That’s not cutting the mustard, in other words, you probably need to redo what you’re working on, not meeting expectations
  13. Quit making a mountain outta that molehill… it’s really not that big of a deal as you think it is
  14. OR as a kid if you ever said this to your Mama or Daddy before school… I just got Bus left… meaning you missed the school bus and you need a ride to school!!!! 🚌

I feel confident that there are a ton more Southern phrases that are very commonplace within our Southern community. But I’ll stop while I’m behind… 😂😬

I’ll close with one that Wayne, who worked many years at our hardware store used everyday as his daily farewell. This phrase maybe unfamiliar to you, but it is too good not to share his classic farewell with you today for my closing… “If you need me, I’ll call you”-Wayne Matherly

2024 Photography Favorites

Beginning in early 2024, I wrote these opening lines: “I have decided to take this year and document and capture memories… from our everyday life activities. Everything isn’t glamorous, we work long hours, 6 days a week, but Richard and I find time to share and unwind. I hope you enjoy a few of my favorite collected moments via photography.”

What a journey it has been! Here’s a look at a few of my photo favorites from each month in 2024. Below each photograph, I will include the original link to each month from 2024, in case you missed it or would like to see more photos from each month.

Time passes like clouds in the sky…

January Photographed
February Photos
March Photo Favorites
March Photo Favorites
April

Winter Gives away to Spring…

Majestic May

Bringing forth the Hues of Summer…

June Memories Photographed
July
August
September: A Mountain Montage

Summer fades into Fall

October
November
December

Different minutes of the same hour it seems in 2024. Thanks for the memories!

August

August… the sizzling summer heat lingers, foggy mornings equate to snowy days in the winter, rolling thunderstorms, and the quest for those cooler days and nights will slowly become our reality. August IS the “Sunday of Summer”. Once it arrives, it seems to go by quickly and a new month is upon you. Sharing a few of my everyday photo favorites to summarize a small portion of this “Sunday of Summer, August 2024. I hope you will enjoy. Thanks for sharing my blog with friends and family and sending your comments to me. Looking forward to September!

Sky Watch

Storm Looming
Hanging Out, August Fog
Fog Hug… August Mornings can bring fog and it is hanging in the trees tightly this morning
Morning Glory
Double Rainbow Skies
High Drama in the Clouds
Golden Evening Sky
September Hues in August

After The Storm

After The Rain
Color Show of the Crepe Myrtle
Color Show of the Crepe Myrtle

Tree Study

I love to photograph a good tree, so when the opportunity presents itself, I will stop and take a moment to take a few pictures. Sometimes they turn out pretty well, sometimes not so much. But, I have learned that multiple shots of the image can make all the difference. Here’s a few of my favorites from this month …

Filtered Light
Double Tree
Same Tree Different View…
Hidden Beauty

Hand building projects completed

Instant gratification isn’t the goal with hand building pottery. Slow and gradual progress is what you see when you begin with raw clay. The processes of creating with clay from shaping/making your piece, which could could take hours or even days… to the first bisque fire, then glazing, going through the kiln again… all take time but the end result is worth the wait! These pieces have been in the works for a while, glad to see them finally finished and grateful for an amazing teacher!!

Bird Bath Complete!! The absolute largest piece made to date! A HUGE thank you to Kim Anderson Reid for her guidance and patience in making this large piece and excellent advice on how to glaze!
Froggy
Aug-tober begins! That’s right, I heard this phrase for the first time this month. I didn’t know it was an actual thing, but it is! All the fall feels in August! Longing for Autumn… well in the world of pottery, the processes of hand building takes a bit of time, and producing fall pieces begins in August and September.

A Pup Interlude

Our son has been traveling for work over the last month or so. When he’s gone from home for an extended period of time, I always try to send him a few pictures of his two favorite pups everyday. He really enjoys seeing them in all of their quirky little daily adventures. Here’s two captured moments from August.

A Bit of Joy
Our Little Cookie Monster

The Greenway

Critters in the Corn
Wildflowers Line the Path
Kudzu Blossoms

Sweet Surprises and Finds

This next group of pictures are interesting finds from August… from trimming bushes and finding a little bird nest inside, to a long walk around the neighborhood at Mom and Dad’s house… you just never know what you will encounter!

Nestled In
Dug In
Muscadines hanging in the trees

Ahoy Mate!

Tied Up
Going Fishing
Gilligan’s Island